TB: The Middle Way

In a longstanding dispute or difficult decision, "think gray" — the truth is often a shade somewhere between the stated positions. Delay commitment and resist the pull toward premature resolution. The Middle Way is also a Buddhist principle: the path between extreme asceticism and indulgence.

Polarized thinking is cognitively efficient but epistemically costly. By delaying decision-making, you avoid confirmation bias — you haven't yet committed to a position to defend. The discipline of holding contradictions without resolving them prematurely is a mark of mature thinking. It's also powerful for patience: the longer you wait, the more information arrives.

• The Middle Way (source note): "Thinking gray: the truth is somewhere in between, a shade of gray." Delaying decision-making avoids confirmation bias.

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